Category M&F (male – female)
A little bit in a humorous format.
Today I would like to start a series of posts about how women and men perceive information differently.
Everything will be a little exaggerated, every fairytale is a lie but there is a hint in it…
The first topic will be the difference in perceptions of the request for help.
And I will begin to reveal the situation from the woman’s side, of course.
So where we stand:
Man and woman came home from work (even tougher scenario, if the man works and woman at home, household with children) and she begins to tell: “You know what?!… my boss he’s such a jerk and he drove me today and of course for nothing, I am good, I do this, I do that, but he is still mad at me! Also my coworker said something that I failed and they put everything on my shoulders: 25 report and all of them I must do in a week, and the salary is soooo low and generally simply no strength…”
Or (if housewife)…. “We with a Baby didn’t eat a useful wonderporridge, and I cooked it for an hour according to the recipe the porridge guru from Insta-Mummys-blog… then at 10:00 I went with my sweetheart darling angel to the market to buy a rabbit liver, because there comes a good farmer and it is the most bio; and Mary said blahblahblah when we were walking with the children; and then I had to drag bags together with a stroller, because our elevator was out of service, blahblahblah etc., etc.”
Well, in a similar way – substitute your monologue for women.
What when he hears from his dear, and beloved woman (I hope), his mind is arranged so that immediately begins to speak: “So, look, come here do it, so here is get this. You say this, then there are these reports can be delegated, then I will talk to our neighbor, and if the elevator would break again, he will help with the stroller”.
Well, that is it does not matter what what it gives advice, or solutions, or offers to do something.
The main thing (key) – it is action-oriented – this should be understood by women.
Well, of course, and men, too.
He doesn’t understand our female language. It is ACTION – oriented.
She said about the problem – it’s all simple, everything is clear – stick-rope, there are no complex nodes, as we have.
Here is the problem indicated: I have a strong shoulder, I have to help. Help – what does it mean? Give clear advice – instructions on what to do, or do it yourself, or hire someone, etc. The keyword is action.
And how does a woman react to this?
You can write your suggestions in the comments. It is very interesting what women will write and what men will write)
And wait for the continuation of the post tomorrow.