Today, in one topic, the author was worried that she couldn’t love herself.
In my opinion, often the wrong thing is taken for self-love. And instead of love, you get another portion of self-hatred.
The girl wanted to write out something good about herself and that’s why she loved herself.
But who will love bad parts of your personality?
Self-love is when you love your REAL self.
Here is what there is with advantages, disadvantages, with blunted sometimes, with a thick booty sometimes, with a thin booty sometimes, with not that blurted out, with that blurted out and so on indefinitely.
I love myself as I am today. And the key thing is to love yourself completely.
And the main thing is a real image, not a fictional ideal.
Most often we want to love themselves later, sometime, when you lose weight, earn, learn, do this and that… And so it’s always anything, but tomorrow.
And some of them are even worse, you don’t want to love yourself that’s not brilliant, and they invent themselves a great PERSON and try to love them. And they start behaving based on non-existent superiority. After all, the ideal image is beautiful, noble, etc. Then they face reality and again a portion of self-hatred.
Or even afraid, such false modesty.
I think you need to be able to see yourself as real, with pros and cons. And love yourself from the bottom of your heart.
I’m alone in my room. It is what it is. I don’t have another one for me today. I’m the only lawyer for myself. And an assistant. Everything is relative, but only I am real to myself. We live always one. Everyone can betray me, and I shouldn’t betray myself.
This is the only major task for life.
And you might think that if I love myself so much, I won’t want to improve myself and change.
But in my opinion, no. Exactly the opposite happens. I love myself and I want the best for myself. I believe in myself and support, so I believe that I can improve myself a little more, develop myself, etc.
Here is precisely love to itself real today’s, and not expectation themselves ideal and then love and gives this movement to itself more ideal.
Because I want to make the choice better and better for myself.