Consultations. Part 2
By studying the unconscious, a person gains the ability to influence his life.
For example, it helps to notice the influence that an individual unconsciously exerts on others (people, situations) and in the same way to notice how other people unconsciously affect him.
Without understanding the unconscious dynamics of events, people are only forced to react passively to them. While understanding this dynamic allows you to start the chain of life events yourself.
How do we influence the people around us, from the ones we barely know to the ones we’re closest to? And how do they, in turn, change our reality? We can either know and control it, or be held hostage by circumstances.
When chance leads a person successfully or at least without loss, few people try to look for a cause-and-effect relationship. Reflections begin at the point of palpable discomfort or, as they say in the people, until the roast rooster does not bite. But even here, the search for the cause of the bad state is often replaced by an attempt to return to the pre-crisis state, without realizing that this scenario will repeat again.
Formless, as if” aching ” pain, dissatisfaction is a superficial symptom of a deep internal catastrophe, the scale and manifestation of which depends on how far our conscious aspirations have diverged from the desires of the unconscious.
For the leader, the sense of lack of something indefinite becomes more subtle and sharpens as more and more attributes are achieved, which are accepted in the mass consciousness for success. It is for this reason that successful people with unconscious dissatisfaction can be misunderstood even in the office of a psychologist.
This is the reason why I decided to work with healthy, successful, or potentially successful people. Working with them is a fine-tuning process that requires not only a solid amount of academic knowledge in the field of psychology, but also experience in effectively applying this knowledge in practice.
In the last publication, my successful business activity was deliberately not covered, so as not to shift the emphasis. Otherwise, there could be a false understanding of the specifics of the consultations, as if I am engaged in business consulting or something similar. I emphasize that this is a psychological consultation.