Consultations. Part 1
In the previous post, I announced the option to make an appointment for individual consultations.
Today, for those who have never been to my consultation, are only familiar with my publications on social networks, or are not familiar with me at all, I will describe the key areas of my work.
To summarize, the main topic is related to the psychology of the leader in various variations, for example:
– women’s leadership, psychosomatics in business;
– developing leadership potential at a young age;
– effective interaction of men and women;
– psychological prerequisites for the collapse of the project/business / career.
This is only a small part of the directions for general understanding.
By “the leader” I mean not only businessmen (owners or top managers).
Leadership potential can be possessed by a person of any profession who wants to develop, within which there is a constant thirst for growth, sometimes this can manifest itself as an unconscious desire for something more. Such people experience discomfort even with a small hitch in the activity, and stopping leads to frankly poor health and even internal decline.
And no matter how the individual consciously persuades himself, they say, I am doing well, even better than many, etc., there is still some dissatisfaction, anxiety, a desire to do something, but it is not clear what exactly. It’s like something wants to spill out.
Internal sensations manifest themselves individually, but their root is the same. Depending on the situation, there may be more or less pronounced discomfort.
Psychology is basically “sharpened” to help people with pronounced problems. And it is wonderful that a huge number of areas in psychology have successfully learned to solve most of them.
I work with healthy, successful, or potentially successful people.
The question is, what psychological problems can such a person have? From the outside, it seems that everything is fine, and the subject himself, comparing himself with others, is convinced of the same. And even if he shares with someone his inner feelings/ doubts/ dissatisfaction/ some incredible aspirations, most people will simply not understand him. They can think quietly, like “he’s mad with fat” or give advice in the style of: “you need to relax, drink, go to the bath, take a vacation, etc.
” Moreover, if an individual comes to a psychologist, then often he may not find understanding. Do not take this as a stone in the garden of fellow psychologists, I treat them with all respect for the daily help to a huge number of people.
Individual counseling is one of the ways of working, during which the psychologist identifies and communicates to the individual the dominant dynamics in his unconscious, relevant at the moment.
Metaphorically speaking, my role in this process is to be a translator from the unknown language of the unconscious to the familiar language of consciousness.
After all, the essence of the consultation is not in giving out useful advice or trying to share your successful business and life experience, but in an unbiased translation. I introduce a person to his unconscious, without bringing anything from myself. In the process of work, it is necessary to discover something previously unconscious inside the individual, to understand what it wants, what it strives for, whether it helps to achieve what a person wants or leads to failures, like a broken compass, and if so, it is necessary to find the reasons for the failure.
To be continued…